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Back to Edith
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2005-07-02 15:55:50 |
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March Madness
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I have been following your saga for some time now and all I can say is you have been played. You and she were on different pages. She wanted a f.. buddy and you wanted something more.. if you are not getting your needs met, move on.. and sounds like you have..there are oh so many fish in the sea. Do not settle for anyone less than someone who makes you happy. If they do not - life is too short and you need to move on.. you can never change anyone... good luck my friend..happy hunting..[romstead]
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2005-05-14 22:35:38 |
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Something in Denmark
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"She scolled me for the look I gave her. She said it was a look of untrust. She complained about the bootie call comment and reminded me that she was trusting me about the state of my marriage. That did not assure me. How can a look say I don't trust her. Only her guilty mind could interpret a look to be one of untrust."
'How can a look say I don't trust her??' You need to read your own entry Mr. Learner. You did not trust her plain and simple. She saw it in your eyes.
I have no idea what you will write next but it doesn't seem like it will be good. "Only her guilty mind could interpret..." Not only her "guilty mind"--it was your look AND her guilty mind.
Just don't underestimate the power of body language.
By the way, I am the one that shows as 'anonymous' when I commented it was sweet you were looking for love. I am the same anonymous here.
Can't wait for your next entry.
[]
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2005-05-12 22:29:31 |
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Getting closer to Dominique
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I think it is sweet that you just want to be in love (loved). So transparent, so raw.[Anonymous]
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2005-05-09 21:27:09 |
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Dominque
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Wow! Now that's early Friday morning reading! Not to be insulting, but she sounds like she has some issues. I find it odd that she would ask if you thought it was a mistake so quickly afterward. But then, everyone wonders about that and perhaps she just has no problem letting her thoughts out. [rainewolfe1202]
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2005-05-06 07:46:59 |
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leaving Child's things behind
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I thoroughly enjoyed reading this entry. I myself am a child of the eighties, so I don't know much about the seventies. Still, there seems to be a huge difference between the way it was when I was eight and the way it is for my eight year old now. We do, however, have one thing in common: She too has a Strawberry Shortcake lunchbox! By the time I was eight I walked a ridiculous distance to my friend's house. The park in our neighborhood is just a block away, and I get so scared when she wants to walk there. It just seems that it's not as safe as it was when I was a child. I could just be remembering my youth through a child's innocent eyes, though. [rainewolfe1202]
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2005-05-05 12:28:07 |
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Story of a women-eventually
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This entry is just the set up to what happened. I'll tell more when I get a chance.[Mr Learner]
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2005-05-03 13:40:51 |
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Story of a women-eventually
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*smiles* Sounds like your pretty hung up on her... Even though I don't know you I'd like to say goodluck to you, you sound like a great guy *smiles* and if she knocks you back, its her loss... but goodluck x[PureEyes]
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2005-05-03 04:38:55 |
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Discovered
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Amen to that. Isn't that why it is so much better to be with someone confident in themselves? If you let a confident person in on things you might keep secret (even from yourself) they don't worry that it is a slight against them. [Mr Learner]
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2005-01-10 08:20:54 |
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Discovered
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Is is really possible you are this selfish? Your wife who had given you all of these years discovers you let another woman suck your cock and all you care about is your precious diary. What the "f" about her? It appears you have many secrets, you say you can not tell the whole truth because she found your diary. The truth is, the secrets you keep are from yourself. [Anonymous]
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2005-01-04 23:22:20 |
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Prepared
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sounds like you had a good time. way to go..
r.[romstead]
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2004-12-05 17:06:36 |
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Not so Fast
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yes that is me. and I have removed my diray as it was causeing alot of pain to others, My life has changed alot .I met my soul mate and I am very happy. going to be married very soon, even though I ment no harm with my diray... as I just wanted to share my life's adventures but many found them a source of pain. so I removed all my entries. I enjoy your diary keep up the good work and have fun. that is the point to have fun. and enjoy life. I just wanted to say hi.
R.[romstead]
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2004-11-26 11:23:11 |
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Not so Fast
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Of course I remember: dom, EMT, jummper. But were is your diary?[Mr Learner]
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2004-11-25 22:33:41 |
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Not so Fast
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Hey good to see your back on line.. sounds like your life is moveing ahead. no sure if you remember me but Im glad to see your haveing fun. and back n the game
have fun
romstead[romstead]
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2004-11-25 15:05:03 |
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e-date
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hey your back.......now do her
[orgasm]
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2004-11-20 12:06:34 |
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Breaking up with Edith
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Long time no read once again Mr. L... Have missed reading you. I've always liked how open and brutally honest you write. I'm sad you no longer can write freely. Send me a quick email....I've got a few more pics to show you <*wink*> [SomeBunny2U]
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2003-11-11 21:36:43 |
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Breaking up with Edith
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I have been away for a long time but I have always enjoyed your diary. I wish you and edith well. good luck my friend. may life be good to you. and to edith. life is good when ever and where you ever you find some shelter from the storm... R. [romstead]
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2003-10-28 15:59:39 |
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Breaking up with Edith
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You are supposed to figure it out from the story, but no, not Washington state. [Mr Learner]
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2003-10-22 07:19:26 |
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Breaking up with Edith
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tacoma, washington? [secondclasshoe]
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2003-10-21 12:07:43 |
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Fork in the road
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Edith is one wierd name. I never knew an Edith.
It is almost kind of pretty. [MrsJones]
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2003-10-18 16:02:37 |
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Fork in the road
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Decisions are made with the hope you didn't make the wrong one. [Dasha]
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2003-10-17 12:02:28 |
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Pictures and memories
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Can I just ask you one question? Why do you live so far in the past? It is 2003....so you sweetheart should live in THIS day. Period. You can't change the past and god knows! none of us know about the future...so live in today! Tootsie Pop. (you don't mind if I call you Tootsie Pop do you?)
Kate [MrsJones]
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2003-10-14 20:00:46 |
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3 x 2
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So hot! So hot, so hot. I now have to go take a shower!!:) Little Miss L is so fine. jenna [jenna]
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2003-10-01 12:39:55 |
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The beginning
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I have kept a diary since I was 19. This diary seems to need a context which my history provides. Besides I love history and biogrophies and this is my autobiography. I wish I could put the letters I wrote from the time I was 15 until I started my diary at 19 all together for one piece of work. [Mr Learner]
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2003-09-29 09:34:21 |
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The beginning
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I need to ask you a question...Why do you live so much in the past? [MrsJones]
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2003-09-27 23:16:28 |
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Rejection
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The above comment was from me-Sam. I forgot to sign my same I guess. I sometimes do that [Sam]
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2003-09-24 15:24:00 |
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Rejection
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Aren't we all glad those days are over. At least the pimple days!! I loved the young fresh girls and their delight in us, I wished those days would last forever. [Anonymous]
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2003-09-24 15:21:39 |
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Two on the radar
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Wow...Mr Learner..in response to your comment...what do you think of Wesley Clark? I am excited about him being the democrat I am.
I love reading your stuff.
Kate [MrsJones]
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2003-09-23 16:50:53 |
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In the 70's, was hair mojo?
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You are beginning to sound a little desperate Mr. Learner, your past entries have taken on a different tone. If your confidence in the past is as good as you say it was, what about now. As children and teens, life is pretty simple. Have you met your expectations now, are you still the envy of all the girls who have now become women and mothers. This category requires more than looks and egos. I ask this because the last time you spoke of your wife, she was not doing what you wanted. Your last few entries have taken on a different tone. I wonder it the woman you married was attracted to that confidence you had back then and is now stuck with a man who keeps hanging onto his "popular and successful" past. I only say this because I have never read an entry where you have acknowledged any true weaknesses. We all have them you know. Yes I have read you from the beginning and never felt the need to write until now. My journal is not public (on another site-why? everyone I work with seems to keep one and I tend to write my day to day struggles with career) I am not being critical, I enjoy reading you. i am just making an observation. [Sam]
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2003-09-21 22:45:34 |
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In the 70's, was hair mojo?
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Your hair was definitely mojo! Come check out my diary and please comment. [Allenby]
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2003-09-21 20:15:56 |
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leaving Child's things behind
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Three miles. I walked in good weather. Usually I took the bus. Although once I rode my bicycle in the rain and whore two trash bags. My fellow students remembered that for a long while. Generally I think us kids back then were more inclided to walk than are the kids I know now. [Mr Learner]
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2003-09-21 19:17:17 |
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leaving Child's things behind
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I enjoy your entries, but this one scared me a little! Are you also going to tell me you walked 7 miles to and from school and studied by candle light?:) [amyb]
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2003-09-20 22:32:53 |
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leaving Child's things behind
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One thing that amazes me about being 35 (almost 36) is watching how life evolves...whether or not us humans are ready! Enjoy your entries!
Kate [MrsJones]
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2003-09-19 17:10:32 |
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Fighting
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Did you have your fingers crossed behind your back while saying your vows on your wedding day? [K]
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2003-09-19 14:33:35 |
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Fighting
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Your diary makes me reminisce about my own childhood! Smiles. [MrsJones]
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2003-09-18 17:40:47 |
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First Election
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My, My Mr. Learner, you are a confident little boy aren't you... [ttoosp]
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2003-09-16 11:16:32 |
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Grapevine
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Oh Mr Learner..I know you aren't a pedophile..I just had to read you last 2 entrys. I think it is interesting to read inside the head of a once boy. Now I find myself reminiscing (did I spell that right?). [MrsJones]
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2003-09-12 15:57:45 |
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First Kiss
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MR. Learner..you need to think about how you write. At first it sounds like you are a pedophile or something. [MrsJones]
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2003-09-11 20:34:53 |
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Back to Seventh Grade
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I will restate: The reason for my absence is relateed to the reason I have come to the end of the story which I began on the first entry. [Mr Learner]
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2003-09-11 10:02:07 |
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Back to Seventh Grade
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Nice to have you back. Didn't quite get the jist of this entry as it relates to the "conclusion" of the story. Maybe I have to follow your entries a little closer. Anyway, happy journaling. [anonymous]
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2003-09-10 16:26:31 |
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Back to Seventh Grade
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There doesn't seem to be a place to send private messages at this site. I have tried to contact you through the other site which should have flagged your e-mail. Did you get it? If so and can't retrieve it, I think it is because you have not activated your journal and your forum-that is where you retrieve private messages. I've missed your entries these past few days. [ttoosp]
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2003-09-09 15:21:26 |
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Reloop
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Hope every thing is ok. missing your entries but hopeing things are ok with you .. R. [romstead]
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2003-09-03 15:41:17 |
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Reloop
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where are you? i haven't had access to the internet for 3 weeks!!! I was anxious to read you and 2 of my other favorites. [anonymous]
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2003-09-02 16:20:43 |
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Lunch
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new -Stepford - old Stepford - either will do! Basically the wives are all programmed to look and act the same. I admit to only reading some of your more recent entries- I too would probably probably prefer 2 men,rather then 2 women. For me its a jealousy thing. I am trying to get over it. Hank, on the other hand, only gets turned on by multiple women - This leaves us in a bit of condundrum (is that a word). Hopefully, I will get over my insecurites (Is she hotter than me?), because it sounds like you are really having a good time. Sometimes things are just meant to be One Night Stands - anything more, and they may present a problem for exisiting relationships - I will keep reading - until (i was tempted to write, until I learn to type- u should see some of my typo's) then I remain ( a rather reluctant)singles player. [amyb]
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2003-08-27 08:21:57 |
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Lunch
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I don't know, what is the New Stepford Wife's movie about? [Mr Learner]
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2003-08-27 06:51:07 |
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Lunch
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Why do I get the idea that you are going to love the new "Stepford Wives" movie? [MrsJones]
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2003-08-25 20:54:34 |
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Knock on the Back Door
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Does anal sex really feel that good? Maybe for you. Did your wife enjoy it? I guess if I was hot enough anything would go..I don't know. [MrsJones]
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2003-08-21 20:00:30 |
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Knock on the Back Door
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yes I too love the back door.. nothing like looseing my load in the back door. its so forbidden. thank you for wonderfull entry.. I enjoy keeping up with your advetures. R. [romstead]
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2003-08-21 18:18:53 |
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Knock on the Back Door
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Wow, that's hot. Good times for you ;) [Mr S]
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2003-08-21 15:59:07 |
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Knock on the Back Door
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i'd like to do that to your wife too. [Anonymous]
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2003-08-20 12:00:14 |
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N/A
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A lttle kinky? Oh ya! My wife liked 2 men as much as the first time with another women. She liked two men more than she has liked subsequent threesomes with a girl. I think it depends a lot on having the right people involved. [Mr Learner]
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2003-08-18 10:30:33 |
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N/A
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Wow, Mr Learner, you are a little kinky huh? I always wondered what it would be like to have a 3some. I think I would prefer 2 men. I will probably never go there in my lifetime. [MrsJones]
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2003-08-17 12:27:42 |
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N/A
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sounds like you all had a good time. I have had many group experieces some go better than others, and some you know are just a one time thing. The key is to have fun and keep good communication with your partner so you both stay focused on each other and are haveing fun.. If your both support each other it works.. thanks for a good entry. sorry I have tardy in my diary so much going on. all if it fun.. R. [romstead]
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2003-08-14 17:23:09 |
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Loosening up
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That's hot, I can see what you mean about the increased kinkiness. RYN: I'm 29, she's 32. Been married 7 years. You? [Mr S]
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2003-08-08 06:13:52 |
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Somethings cumming
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Hat's off to you and your kinkiness. [Mr S]
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2003-08-07 10:00:06 |
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Preparation
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I think it sounds hot, too. I hope it all goes well. [Mr S]
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2003-08-07 09:58:47 |
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Plastic improvement
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No its not too much- the more info the better. [Mr Learner]
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2003-08-06 07:25:12 |
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Plastic improvement
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Just so you know..I am not into 3somes.
TO answer your question?...The married guy hooked me first. Then I found out he was married. He told me he was getting a divorce. I found out he was STILL married.
The sex was so good I backed off. And listened, felt bad for the sob story, continued to have sex with him. Continued to f u c k myself over in the process. I know it is time to move on. Too much info? Mr. Learner? [MrsJones]
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2003-08-02 22:20:38 |
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Night's end
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Yikes, that's hot! Thanks for sharing. [Anonymous]
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2003-08-02 08:21:45 |
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Cumming out of the closet
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Hot entries!! You should be getting more comments. [Anonymous]
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2003-08-02 08:16:43 |
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Dirty Talk
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very nice entry.. grin. so to speak.. I have done some swinging and have found it a very fun sexy thing. chemisty is important.. its better to know and like the other couple . makes the play better have fun R. [romstead]
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2003-07-01 18:49:54 |
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Panic
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i'm sorry but i'm rofl!!! That is so damn funny! Okay, but seriously, that was kind of embarrassing, no? Damn, i wish i worked in your office just so i could have fun teasing you all day...:) [caramelbaby]
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2003-06-20 15:30:30 |
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Second twice more powerful than one once
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And if you learned what it was and still practice it as an adult, you are undoubtedly a dangerous man...lol... [Jaded_hope]
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2003-06-18 21:03:47 |
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Fourth grade
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Wow, and I'll bet your parents pid big bucks for that private education. I went to a Catholic school for one half of first grade. All I remember is being pulled from class and marched over to church with the rest of the whole school because the President had been shot dead. [ToastedNuts]
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2003-06-11 08:27:46 |
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Its good
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good to know you are getting it good. i am also. life is so good when your in the pink so to speak. thanks for the entry. R. [romstead]
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2003-06-09 20:02:33 |
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slap it
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very nice.. thanks for shareing.. i do love ass play as well. and dirty talk.. thanks again. R. [romstead]
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2003-06-09 19:52:17 |
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Look ma, I'm on LA law.
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Your career sounds so interesting. Always something different. Never boring and no repetition. I, on the other hand am a forklift operator on a receiveing dock. Boring, indeed. Nice to meet you Mr. Learner [ToastedNuts]
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2003-06-05 15:42:33 |
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slap it
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gawd....now that's a hot evening!!!! :) :) [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-30 17:59:22 |
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Crazy
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Life takes a lot of bravery. It's hard and often enough to knock us down, make us blue...make us just feel not okay. i don't think it's much different for men, but women are more likely to ask for help dealing with it, more likely to 'fess up about it and therefore get "diagnosed" and medicated. But that's just my opinion. Sorry about the disk problems. That's enough to drive you crazy right there!;) [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-29 17:08:37 |
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I'm still Learning
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i agree with baby! if only more couples were open to explore and share!! [slavesueOH]
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2003-05-29 16:35:56 |
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Crazy
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I think it is less to do with the women you are attracted to and more to do with the overmedication of America. The second you "don't feel right" or have "the blues" people get on medication. It's not right. [Elisheva]
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2003-05-29 16:35:26 |
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I'm still Learning
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i'm glad the dinner went well...sorry about her having her period! (we women know it always seems to show up at the most inconvenient times!) This entry got me thinking more about how no matter how long you are with someone, there are always things to explore. And also, how important it is to be open to creating your relationships in ways that work for you, instead of the way "society" tells you to. Anyway, i love how, after 16 years of marriage, you are still atracted to your wife and still feel sexually alive... [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-28 12:05:40 |
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Help me an something
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Sorry that i am too late to offer suggestions!!!! RYN: Mr. Learner, your encouragement really makes me smile. Thank you!!!! [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-27 13:13:48 |
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Help me an something
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Thanks Elisheva. That idea crossed my mind but your suggestion arrived too late so I didn't request it. Firstmlast, I thought I would be getting more of it than I am so I can't give you any advise. But if I were going to try, I'd watch porn with what I like and work from her reaction. [Mr Learner]
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2003-05-27 12:07:42 |
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Help me an something
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sound like you still love your wife after 16 years. Good to hear that! BTW, how come you so lucky to be able to get your wife agree to the swinging. I can only dream about that. [firstMlast]
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2003-05-23 17:23:27 |
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Help me an something
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One word. Commando. [Elisheva]
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2003-05-23 12:56:00 |
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Help me an something
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16 years is quite a long time. it's our 10th anniversary this year only. this resturant you pick have live music? a romantic soft music play at the table is always a dream for me. else if there's dance floor, a romantic dance will add the touch [16 years]
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2003-05-23 11:16:47 |
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Flowers
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i'm baby! i did have a good time, thank you, Mr. Learner! And you are so right...good times are too far and few. But let's both make a point of having good times more often. You seem to have made a few of your own recently! (: (: [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-16 16:37:25 |
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Flowers
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Hmmm. Who's Baby? Who had a good time? I'm confused. :) [Elisheva]
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2003-05-16 16:17:02 |
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Spanking
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omg! i don't need to tell you how hot i got in just the few moments it took me to read this! yes, you should have done *something* about her telling you to be quiet...but there's always next time...:) [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-14 13:57:14 |
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Her room
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she's really on your mind, i see. :) [caramelbaby]
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2003-05-05 16:44:47 |
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Just as B 4 she grows on me.
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~~~ wow! I knew there was something more there... interesting. ~~~ [TLS]
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2003-05-01 01:31:01 |
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You've got a friend
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Been their .... I once went to see a old friend, we talked a few times on the phone, then i drove out of town to see her(with a big hard on)............It was like "hello" ....what happen??????......being a male..I did her anyways... [orgasm]
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2003-04-30 20:27:24 |
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You've got a friend
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That was disturbing. i'm sorry it turned out that way. But i suppose a lot can happen in two years. :( [caramelbaby]
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2003-04-30 19:40:54 |
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You've got a friend
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~~~ Interesting entry... not sure what to think though... really need more to go off of... ~~~ [TLS]
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2003-04-30 18:18:48 |
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Good Week
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~~~ Every man's fantasy... two women or more gettin' it on... geesh! :P ~~~ [TLS]
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2003-04-20 20:09:52 |
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Good Week
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I am always so amazed at the perdicaments we get our selfs in to.. over and over and over. job secuirty for you and for me.. Men and women make promises they never keep.. and my clients stretch their luck and health,.till somthing breaks. then we both jump in. and benifit from it.. If I may recomend a great book. "brain sex" I think you might find it very interesting. I do not remember the author but i will look.. if you want. its about why men and women act.. and think so differently and alike.. and the problems their in.. Im so like you. yet have learn so much form where you are and have been.. do your self a favor read this book.. is so empowering.. forgive me if i stepped on any ego toes. as they say your milage my vary.. I only seek to share.. not to judge.. R. [romstead]
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2003-04-18 18:06:41 |
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No focus
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I don't think it was the machine. But if it was, I'll have to buy one. [Mr Learner]
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2003-04-16 12:41:04 |
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No focus
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~~~ God, I think that made me hot. geesh! One of my MDD faves is going to school for stenography, and actually explained to me what that little machine does... obviously it does something completely different for you! ;) ~~~ [TLS]
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2003-04-15 14:50:19 |
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Look at entry 88 first
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i don't like this side of Edith...and you know the love i have for her. i guess with me, i just would never ask for money in a relationship like you two have....which isn't exactly a "relationship" at all. i have no idea what's up with her. But you can test it by not giving the money next time and see how she responds. i hope she is not always asking for money. But i have to admit that when i was that age, i was always broke and needing help financially. So i do empathize with her. She might just be testing you, but i can see why you would be concerned. [caramelbaby]
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2003-04-09 21:59:05 |
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Look at entry 88 first
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I agree with the other comments. Money can become a wedge. I would really talk to her about this express your concerns and fears. as well as your support. and love. Its the Love that makes all things possible. makeing a small corse correction now will keep you and your realtionship on corse. IT has always served me well to talk openly and make the small correction neccessary to keep the quality of the realtionship high. never let fear or apprehension or miscommunication pull you off corse. take the time do the talk make the correction if any.. now. not later R. [romstead]
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2003-04-09 14:50:50 |
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What do you think?
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I should make you read my whole diary but instead I'll make it easy-I'm 38. My describtion of myself is at entry 3. [Mr Learner]
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2003-04-09 14:49:46 |
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Look at entry 88 first
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I think right now, you shouldn't be worried. She is a smart girl, and like you said, she works hard, and probably really does need it. But if she asks you for money again, or it becomes a habit, I would be concerned. [Elisheva]
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2003-04-09 13:54:08 |
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Look at entry 88 first
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Hey Learner, I think you should be suspicious. No offense to Edith, but she is young, very young, and after reading everything that your family is going through, and trying to buy a house. If she really loves you then she won't think less of you for not giving her money. She also understood that you were married and that your family has to come first. I say don't feel guilty about not giving her any money, but feel good about thinking about your famiy first. [jul1013]
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2003-04-09 11:49:29 |
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What do you think?
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very interesting.... how old are you as opposed to her? [sister enna]
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2003-04-09 08:09:12 |
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Double life
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i love Edith and i don't even know her! Life is full of these kinds of pushes and pulls. We sometimes get yanked back and forth between our longing and the cold hard realities. You are a good father. And at the same time, you allow yourself to taste a bit of the dream, even if you cannot yet enjoy its full flavor. [caramelbaby]
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2003-04-02 19:11:23 |
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Spring should be more exciting
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I understand the back thing. Hang in ther it will improve. I found the more you move the better it feels. and by all means masterbation relieves stress! [0_Jezabelle]
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2003-04-02 17:15:55 |
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House
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Thanks, Caramel. [Mr Learner]
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2003-03-25 14:18:33 |
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House
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Congratulations! [caramelbaby]
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2003-03-25 09:09:30 |
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Kisses like fire
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i dig the "favorite lollipop" comment. very sweet. Too bad about the eggs though, huh? (: [caramelbaby]
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2003-03-13 18:40:04 |
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Somethings coming
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Ohhhhh....i can't wait to read about it! [caramelbaby]
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2003-03-08 18:18:29 |
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Getting Well
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Some people just have better focus. [PresentTense]
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2003-03-03 16:05:57 |
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Getting Well
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Except that ADD is a made up disease. It doesn't exist. [Anonymous]
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2003-03-03 13:08:42 |
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Not everyone remembers
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hmmm....well, she's an ungrateful witch!!!! hehe, just kidding. i have a lot of memories from my childhood...vivid ones. i often wonder if the people i remember ever think of me too. i guess i'll probably never know. i remember collecting marbles, and that i liked the big clear ones with swirls of color inside. No one except my mother ever gave me any though. i think i would remember that. [caramelbaby]
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2003-03-03 11:56:57 |
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House hold for three
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Darla finally came to her senses and saw it would not be a good deal for her. Of course it only would be if she was in it to living close to me. But she wants her own man, I'm sure. [Mr Learner]
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2003-02-28 10:53:05 |
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House hold for three
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Is your wife going to get jealous? [caramelbaby]
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2003-02-27 14:41:50 |
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Sick ...weak... end
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Ugh...sorry you are not feeling well! It sounds awful and i hope it is over soon. i have to tell you though, that i love reading about your life, even the day to day things and the memories too. Oh, and i smiled to read that you still managed to get off watching a movie. (; Well, i hope you are back to your healthy self very soon... [caramelbaby]
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2003-02-26 11:00:37 |
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Cool in the Pool
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I like the recollections. I've been reading your diary since entry 1, just nnot much of a commenter. I think these past couple entries have been especially enlightening. [Elisheva]
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2003-02-21 16:27:27 |
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Intervention?
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It is rare that #1 gets headaches with us. However, at the end of a busy day or if #1 is any kind of sick #1 would be quick to complain of a headache. The doctor said the dosage will not have to keep going up and up. I hope he is right. [Mr Learner]
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2003-02-19 07:49:00 |
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Intervention?
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Does your son get headaches when he is at home? I have not heard of headaches being associated with ADD, of course I'm far form being a Doctor but I do know that some kids with learning differences are hypersensitive to light and the lighting in schools are hard on the eyes. [Anonymous]
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2003-02-18 20:12:08 |
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Intervention?
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Hi Mr. Learner. I'm glad you figured out what was going on with your son. Will the doses keep getting larger and larger. I've only known one person to committ suicide. She shot herself in the bathroom at school. I didn't really know her, but she was in a some of my classes. I often wondered if that was the reason she committed suicide so people would notice her. [mornings_promise]
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2003-02-18 18:17:06 |
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N/A
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Hey, I love your diary! [Anonymous]
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2003-02-16 12:54:46 |
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N/A
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Gosh I was really worried. No email and when I tried to send one back it kept coming back. I'm very anal protective about my friends (he he he) I mean when I feel attached to someone I always think their gonna die on me or something. Why is that. Something to explore in my own diary I guess. [mornings_promise]
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2003-02-13 15:58:56 |
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N/A
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Hmmm I hate when the diary does that to me too. I'm not sure what I hit by accident to make it do that but it does all the time and then everyone thinks I'm a huge goof. ahem But i don't think that about You Mr. Learner. I like the idea of the cell phone a lot. Do you have unlimited nights and weekends. I know what happened. When you learn one new skill you lose and old one. So now that you can use a cell... oh well. I hope you forget how to use the cell soon because I will miss you most of all. Just being a brat Mr Learner. I sowwy be well [mornings_promise]
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2003-02-12 16:58:43 |
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N/A
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i'm assuming you got interrupted and couldn't finish this entry. Hope you have the chance to write soon and let us in on what you wanted to say. i'm very curious!!!! [caramelbaby]
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2003-02-12 15:55:04 |
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N/A
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huh? [angie24]
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2003-02-12 13:48:32 |
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Baby
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Gosh Mr. Learner I didn't know that a guy could cum that many times in one morning. (hehehe) I was thinking something dirty. I have so much to learn. I hope I have enough time to learn it all and learn it well. Be well [mornings_promise]
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2003-02-12 10:21:21 |
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Baby
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I liked your story. [Enormity1234]
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2003-02-11 22:27:18 |
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Baby
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Thanks Angie and Baby. I'm glad you two liked it because you are two of the sexiest diarist I read. Also, you know how much I like turning two girls on at once. [Mr Learner]
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2003-02-10 12:32:48 |
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Baby
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I liked this entry too. What a horn dog! (that's a good thing!) [angie24]
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2003-02-07 13:43:21 |
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Baby
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i really liked this diary entry. i love your raw way of talking about sex...the language you use. (Reminds me of Someone special in my life..smile)One of my favorite lines in this whole entry is "Then she sucked me for a bit (while I said things like, "Baby you suck me so good") and finally I put her on her back and fucked her hard." That got me very excited just reading about it. Nice 'entry'....excuse the pun...hehe! [caramelbaby]
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2003-02-07 13:04:26 |
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Baby
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Heh...yes, sex. Sex is VERY important in a marriage, isn't it? [PrometheusX]
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2003-02-07 12:56:24 |
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2/5/03
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Hi Mr.Learner :o( unfortunately I think what you said about me is true. [mornings_promise]
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2003-02-06 17:37:50 |
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2/5/03
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You have a great dry sense of humor. i liked your somewhat sarcastic comment about advice beforehand being better than advice after the fact. Yeah, i love it when people tell me things too late...and act like they could have helped me when in fact they didn't attempt to help at all! And about women having a lot of ways to fool a guy...gee, you don't really think that do you, Mr Learner? i mean, that we have this bag of tricks just waiting to be used on an unsuspecting fellow. Well, maybe some of do...like some men do, too. But there are an awful lot of us, and probably your wife too, who are real, genuine and don't want to fool or be fooled. And wow, thanks for reading my diary...and especially for enjoying it and not judging me harshly. i am completely addicted to your diary and enjoy it a lot...no fooling! (: [baby]
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2003-02-06 09:27:36 |
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Reasonable or compensation?
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Baby, I am loving your diary! [Mr Learner]
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2003-02-04 16:17:33 |
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Reasonable or compensation?
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i dread car shopping and buying. We need another car, but can't really afford a new one...which means we have to deal with the possibility of used car salespeople trying to scam us. Well, glad you got a good deal. i always look at cars as a way to get from point a to point b. i like it to look halfway decent and not break down. But maybe i'm just saying that because i'm not rich enough to buy a fifty thousand dollar SUV!(: [caramelbaby]
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2003-02-04 09:07:48 |
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Circular
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Hi Mr. Learner. You are really struggling with things lately. How does one find a jod that they can work whenever, because that would be great if schools were like that too. As far as what motivates women to have sex you're asking the wrong one. I know what motivates me to kiss or not kiss a boy though. If I just like the boy I'll give him a kiss. But I don't know what would motivate me to have sex with a boy. Oh I know a candy apple red ferrari and a vacation in some place tropical. :o) just kidding. Sometimes I think about what it would be like living with my parents 30 years from now. I think it would be workable if I got to be the boss and make the rules. I don't think me paying all their bills and them being in charge would work for me. Be well MP [mornings_promise]
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2003-01-29 16:59:25 |
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Pictures of Edith
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The last time I checked, 49 plus 1 equaled 50, not 48 plus 1.... [TatorTotPrincess]
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2003-01-27 15:57:59 |
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Pictures of Edith
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Pictures can be so hot! i'll bet they are beautiful! i can certainly understand why you would be gazing at them whenever you have a moment. i think pictures can sometimes be hotter than video because they just let the imagination go full force, or the memories flow. i also think that is extremely sexy that Edith sent those to you. A sweet gesture! (: [caramelbaby]
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2003-01-24 13:11:54 |
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What goes up must come down
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My brothers have always hinted to my parents that I should be medicated or at least sedated. Fortunately those decisions are not left up to the brothers. It puzzles me to think that one of them could call up pretending to be my dad and order some mood altering drug and sneak doses to me in my food and drink. I think (yikes) the issue is with the doctor and not Mrs. Learner. Does this doctor even know your child. That really sucks that the doctor can get away with that. What's his number. I think my parents would benefit from me giving them valium and warm milk on Saturday nights around midnight. I hope there is a way to resolve this. [mornings_promise]
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2003-01-22 17:44:12 |
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What goes up must come down
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Wow, that's a tough thing, having to decide if your child really needs medication. Nowadays it's like every kid that gets on someone's nerves is getting medicated. Nobody wants to deal with anything anymore. i know for some it really is necessary, but others are being medicated when maybe it would be a lot better to go about things another way. i obviously have no idea what the situation is with your child, but i don't blame you for wanting to be in on the decision...and wanting to make sure it is really the thing to do. i don't have kids, but i imagine that would be a really difficult decision. i mean, how can you be sure? Well, i hope you're able to talk it over with your wife. But i know communication in a marriage is not so easy either. Wish i could give some advice. Sorry. i do wish you the best in this situation. [caramelbaby]
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2003-01-22 15:07:02 |
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Martin Luther King
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MP- that's awesome. Imagine how great a place we will have created when we have all that plus real peace. I remember the evening of Sept 10, 2001 walking home from law school thinking how wonderful a place and time I lived in(and I had read about Osama bin dink head) compared to the fear of nuclear destruction from the 60's-80's. Its still as wonderful a place and time-we all just realize now that we have something else to look out for. [Mr Learner]
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2003-01-22 10:16:30 |
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Martin Luther King
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Hi Mr. Learner :o) That comment you left was pretty funny ( a good idea but funny too). I wanted to comment on your entry about oz. I think it's different here because like Robin Williams said in that movie "I love America. Everyone is form somewhere else." I think that's why we can collectively call ourselves Americans first. That was proven on Sept 11th. Every American felt the connectiveness. This was done to "us" not "them" for a change. I like that we can be ourselves first and still be Americans. African-Americans, Asian-Americans, Euro-Americans, Hispanic-Americans Jewish-Americans and Native Americans. Here we can celebrate who we are as a race or culture and still be proud be a part of a country that allows others to celebrate with us. One time when a bunch of my friends came over my dad asked if this was the new U.N. headquarters. I like my group of friends and each one for a different reason but mostly because we live in a country where we can all be friends. be well [mornings_promise]
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2003-01-21 18:35:49 |
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Martin Luther King
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thanks caramal-you did. I'm enjoying yours too. [Mr Learner]
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2003-01-21 08:25:48 |
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Martin Luther King
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i dig what you wrote because you did a great job of explaining how you came to your present thoughts about the MLK holiday. Most people aren't so good at explaining where they stand on any issue, probably because alot of it is emotional. i always try to think things through and get the facts to back up my opinions. i always welcome someone to change my mind on anything...if they have some logic behind why i should. Did i tell you that i am really enjoying your diary? (: [caramelbaby]
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2003-01-17 15:45:32 |
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Getting in on the Debate
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It's like I tell people when they talk about "Australians". Who's an australian. If you look chinese here You're not considered "australian" and yet their ancestors could of stepped off the first boats with the "white" british. Which means they have been here as long as "white" australians but "white" people wont here it. They will say "No, they are still chinese!". Some people are so ignorant. Let alone the whole fact tht the aboriginals were here 100,000 years before anyone but...? I cant get into it as it all just makes me soooo mad!!!!!!!!! Good entry for sure. love princessSam ♥ [princessSam]
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2003-01-17 01:04:27 |
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Getting in on the Debate
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Well, i'm hooked. Just read your entire diary. It's real and straightforward in a way that i appreciate. i'll be back regularly to see how you are doing.... [caramelbaby]
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2003-01-16 11:23:41 |
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Girls, Girls, Girls
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:o) Hi Mr. Learner. I hope the threesome works out for you. But the it's looks like it's going to be a no go. Thank you for the compliment. I would like to get to know you better as well. Maybe in one of my entries I'll write just about me. be well [mornings_promise]
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2003-01-09 17:59:31 |
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Holiday Cheer
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Hi Mr. Learner :o) Can I play too. :o)) Sounds like the three of you of you had a great time. Do you think Mrs. Learner was a little jealous that you and Darla got along so well and both of you got to cum but not her? Be Well [mornings_promise]
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2003-01-07 16:10:52 |
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Preliminaries
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and then?.......and then?.....AND THEN????? You tease me! ;-) [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-12-30 14:53:30 |
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Anticipation
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Although I love a threesome, my favorite fantize is to have a foursome so the women also get to have two men at the same time. I fantizise about all sorts of combinations that two men and two men can have. I don't care to touch or be touch by a guy but I don't mind seeing, being seen or being close. [Mr Learner]
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2002-12-26 12:31:50 |
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Sexual Healing
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what do you think is a mans top fantasie? and whats yours? [pplsuck02]
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2002-12-26 00:10:03 |
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Sexual Healing
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Happy Holidays:o) I'm glad that Ms.Learner is initiating sex with you. You asked me about the Master thing and my preception. It would be easier to just give you a website. WWW.castlerealm.com. I think Ms. Learner would like the role play part but not the lifestyle so much. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-12-24 16:54:16 |
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N/A
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We have never had just another man. I want to however. I think it would be very hot to watch her with both of us. Her friend John is the best candidate but she tells me he declines the invitation.(I'm not so sure she really invited him.) We have never formally decided to make me a dom and her mistress. I don't know how people can live a real life where one dominates the other. I understand it for sexual role playing-and we've tried that with only moderate sucess- but in life I believe in each person acting on their own free will. You'll have to tell more about what your preception of having a master means to you. If its a sex thing my wife would try it, if its me telling her when to get out of bed and when to make dinner-forget it! LOL [Mr Learner]
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2002-12-20 15:08:49 |
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N/A
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Hmm. It's all very complicated. Have you thought about becoming a Dom and Ms. Learner a Mistress? That way you could both find the perfect second and train them to be available whenever you needed a threesome. Have you and Ms. Learner ever done a threesome with another man? Or is it more of a equal swapping thing with another couple? Thanks for the advice. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-12-18 16:43:27 |
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More scheduling problems
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Hey Mr. Learner! Just read your whole diary, can't wait for more. [Anonymous]
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2002-12-18 03:51:19 |
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More scheduling problems
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I agree with Ms. Learner. If I were going to be in a threesome I would like the man to be at least as good looking as my husband if not better. Better would be better though. Especially if he was getting someone younger and sexier than me. Has Ms. Learner ever gotten to pick the couple. I can't remember. What if she just wanted to do another man, would that be ok? Sex is way too complicated and it makes my head hurt. Oh wait that's an excuse not to have sex :o) be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-12-17 17:57:13 |
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Response 2 Mornings Promise
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Mr. Learner. :o) thanks for your response. I'm going to have to watch my parents more closely when they're around their friends. See if I notice anything weird or overly flirtatious. My parents seem pretty sexual, all that hugging and kissing and groping and stuff, but when I look at them it's really hard to picture a third or fourth with them. I guess it's not outside of the realm of possibilities though. Imagine my parents surprise if they found out I was discussing their sexuality publicly. (he he he) I guess I have to start thinking about exploring my sexuality more. Besides my fetish for older dominate men, I haven't found much more that appeals to me. I do enjoy oral which is about the extent of what I've done. I'm not to young to say that am I? I know that men enjoy a good frolicky (sp) threesome so it's something that I will eventually have to ponder. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-12-08 00:09:53 |
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Preparing for the 20th
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Hi :o) Mr. Learner. Did you know that Linda was bi when you got married. Do you sometimes think about how your life would have been different if you had met Edith first. Do you think you would have married her or did you feel safe with Edith because you felt like if things didn't work out you could just say you have to go back to your wife? I think you and Edith would have had beautiful children. Did you ever find out why she was having such bad aches. I get bad headaches too. I guess there's a lot more to sex and marriage then just having sex and being married. I've read your whole diary but I still don't understand the swinging thing very well. Is that like cheating with permission. If you have a threesome does that make it ok to have sex with someone else when your partners not around. I wonder if my parents have ever done that? [mornings_promise]
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2002-12-03 18:53:10 |
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Back to Edith
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Hi M.P. I think the next entry answers your questions: She loves me too and I imaging if we see each other again we will great each other with a kiss. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-27 07:49:19 |
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Back to Edith
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oh good grief. Sorry about that. I added it after I proofed it too. lol. It probably doesn't make any sense. I'll try again. Was Edith in love with you. If you saw her today what do you think it would be like? [mornings_promise]
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2002-11-26 16:22:42 |
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Back to Edith
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Hi :o) Do you think Edith was in love with you or just like you? Sometimes it's really hard to figure out what poeple are thinking about you. If You were to see Edith today do you think your pick up where you left off or just be like old friends? be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-11-26 16:20:35 |
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Fast for ward story a little
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Thank you. I'm enjoying reliving the story. I have to hurry up because I think I will be living some interesting details pretty soon. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-22 12:03:48 |
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Fast for ward story a little
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I've just read your whole diary and I'm looking forward to reading the rest... update soon :) [emma jane]
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2002-11-21 20:53:50 |
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Last Time
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Yes. Yes. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-21 08:16:03 |
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Last Time
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I love Edith too. She seemed really sweet and innocent but a woman too. I know I'm not suppose to ask, but do you still think about her even when you're not writing about her? I wonder if I will have that one great love that I think about and smile and people will look at me and wonder what I'm smiling about? be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-11-20 17:41:49 |
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The night
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I think and thought at the time that she was at the wrong angle so her tongue wasn't touching the right spot. The under side of my penis is more sensitive than the side so it is better for a women to be straight in front of me while doing it. Since she never changed position to work on it alone(without my hand),I don't know if I am correct. Its nice to hear from your MP. I wonder how things are going with you. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-20 08:05:38 |
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The night
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Mr. Learner :o) I should call you Mr. Teacher. What about the oral sex was it that you didn't like? That must have been so weird having her sister walk in on you and then hanging around. Sounds like something my goofy brothers would do but they would find the perfect chance to tell later too. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-11-19 19:02:23 |
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The night
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Psst....thats reason why I've nicknamed my hot-sex-lover "the Dr." ....swallowing him, makes my complexion glow! <*wink*> [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-11-19 16:43:31 |
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The night
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It should be! [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-19 15:13:38 |
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The night
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You'd never had anyone swallow before?! Wow... I've thought that was the only way to do it. [Swallows]
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2002-11-19 14:58:25 |
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Smart move or missed opportunity?
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Check out entry 22. That girl is half African American. (By the way I am setting up a date with her and my wifes friend John. The four of us are going to play pool.Its hard to keep track of who know what about whom) My wife has always said Woppie Goldberg is beautiful but I never agreed until I got to know Edith. Your Question you want a yes to will make me get ahead of my story. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-15 08:06:33 |
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Smart move or missed opportunity?
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Hi Mr. Learner. Do you think your wife would have enjoyed being in a threesome with someone of a different race? I feel really bad about Edith but I'm not sure why. Was she ok? Do you still hear from her. Say yes even if you don't. [mornings_promise]
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2002-11-14 17:21:12 |
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Smart move or missed opportunity?
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I don't know the answers. That is what I find interesting about my story. Were things happening because of personality, illness or the circumstances in which we found each other. I know that a person into threesomes will not do it with anyone at any time under any circumstances just as all us sexual people don't do it any where, anytime with anyone. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-14 08:01:07 |
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Smart move or missed opportunity?
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Do you think (from previous entry) Edith would have accepted your threesome offer? Or perhaps be upset by the suggestion? My impression from what I'm reading Edith seems strong for keeping her distance. Sexually. Maybe due to your being married, she not wanting to ruin that? or maybe it was due to her health? Her prognosis? [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-11-13 22:35:58 |
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Getting to know you
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Thanks MP. I'm reading you. [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-08 12:32:57 |
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Getting to know you
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Hi Mr Learner :) I've enjoyed catching up on your diary. I can't wait to read how you and Edith turned out. She sounds really special. Very different from your wife. I'm glad I got a chance to catch up with you. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-11-07 16:14:51 |
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I'm pulling for you! [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-07 13:26:33 |
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I am sure after my entry, I am wanting to be with someone who wants to improve themselves. I have improved myself menatlly, now I want to do it physically. I agree with you on lifting weights. I used to lift weights on a regular basis, but quit. While I was at the gym last night, I inquired about hiring a personal trainer. I think I am going to do it. NO...I am going do it. :-) [jul1013]
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2002-11-07 12:56:03 |
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Everybody needs to do some type of weight lifting-even if that means only doing push ups(for upper body and squating in place(for legs). It builds muscle which will consume fat even while you sleep. Do the movements slowly, it makes it more difficult and seems to cause non bulky muscle growth. This is all spelled out in a book called "Body for Life." I highly recommend it. Just take a peek at it in a book store. The inside cover is before and after pictures. They are literally unbelievable. But believe them. If one physically does the work any body(again, I mean that literally) can be transformed. The book spells out just what to do in the gym, and a diet six days a week with one day each week to relax. The author warns you at the beginning of the book if you have a partner who improves themselve while you do not the two of you are not likely to last. On the other hand if you improve yourselve you will be a magnet to others who are also doing the work to improve themselves. Who would anyone rather be with? [Mr Learner]
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2002-11-07 11:07:03 |
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OH BTW: Regarding your comment in my first entry...I am not unattractive, by all means(not to sound egotistical) However, I do beleive in seeing the very best in people, no matter where they are in life. That is what got me in trouble. I agree with you... it is self improvement I feel better now than I did with him. [jul1013]
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2002-11-07 10:51:29 |
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Thank you Mr. Learner. I did go to the gym. I worked for about an hour and I felt a lot better. I have lifted weights before, but I am focusing on endurance right now. I have almost read your entire diary. I must say that although I, myself, could never do the swinging thing, fantasizing about it is a turn on. In other words, I found your entries very seductive and sensual. Thanks again and take care. [jul1013]
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2002-11-07 09:52:09 |
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N/A
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GRRRRR! What happened, what happened next??? Your not gonna leave me hang'en all weekend are ya? LOL! [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-11-01 15:38:20 |
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Copyright
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That never stopped anyone. [Anonymous]
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2002-10-29 15:50:30 |
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Darlene
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Gezzzzz! OK AL, We MUST have been seperated at birth!!! I just wrote (more or less) these same words to a new friend <*hint hint*> in an e-mail earlier today. I'm so freaking-out right now! I'm sure the e-mail reciever is also...LOL! [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-10-24 17:33:10 |
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Darlene
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Thank you. [Mr Learner]
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2002-10-24 09:11:07 |
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3-way (18 or older only)
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Hot stuff again!! WHEW! I replied to your comment back to me on the same entry (last entry).. just so you know. Sure sounds like you guys have had some fun! Way to go :) AL [Amazon Lover]
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2002-10-24 01:40:29 |
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Darlene
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Oh and to answer your other question.... she may very well be clinically depressed... have you asked her to see a doc about that? If so, what are her responses...because I can hear this one already... her saying I'm not depressed you saying yes you are...her saying no I'm not...you saying you need to go to the doc and get on some stuff to help you and her repeatedly denying this. Again... you can't force someone to get help for something they DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE.. I'm talking from alcohol abuse, to depression, to physical or emotional abuse, to them having a terrible character flaw.... if THEY do not see it, take responsibility for it... there is nothing you can do. That's the hardest part.. watching someone destroy themselves (no matter what it is....) and giving them room enough to "choose" to get better (i.e. hit bottom). I wish you the best.... this is a hard road. HUGS AL [Amazon Lover]
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2002-10-24 00:09:27 |
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Darlene
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Ok, what I see from what you write (in both diary and the comment back to me) is that she is chronically unhappy.. she wants the people around her to be responsible for her happiness and doesn't want to control her OWN happiness. The side that I see is something you do have control over....is your expectations. I think asking a woman who has had multiple children to return to her pre-child figure is unreasonable. I think since you have issues with alcohol that do not directly relate to her (you hated it before she drank....and she drinks to piss you off), maybe you need to find a different solution. Now don't feel picked on, I'm not trying to do that...what I am trying to say...is that I can point out "things" I see about you because you write here, because you are communicating with me. I hear what you tell me about HER behavior, however, I can't talk to her directly to find a "cause" for the behavior, I can only make guesses. My best advice to you is this... take an inventory of your own good things, great things, not so good things and "awful things" that we all have about ourselves. Decide what is a "key" factor in your marriage, or what "rules" you grew up with as a child (I see alot of body image stuff - that women must be perfect for you to be attracted to them)...and decide what you WANT to change and change you. If you don't feel you have any responsibility for the issues in your marriage (I would strongly disagree, because it always takes two), then don't change a thing, but again.... DECIDE what's more important.. your wife living up to your expectations (and you HERS), or is it more important for your children to grow up in a stable healthy environment. As an FYI.. MOST people who drink on a daily basis, drink to escape..so ask yourself...why is she trying to escape..it doesn't have to be a problem you "own"... just a problem that you see... does that make sense? My email addy is somewhere in my diary .... you can feel free to email me if you'd like to talk more. and please again, don't take this offensively... I'm not trying to upset you, but offer some perspective about women. No we don't all think that way to answer your question....but marriages are SO complicated...that we often "react to each other" instead of being constructive. JMHO Take good care.. AL [Amazon Lover]
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2002-10-24 00:03:02 |
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3-way (18 or older only)
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hey can you do me a fave and give me some tips on giving a good blow job? [pplsuck02]
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2002-10-23 21:30:33 |
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Darlene
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Thanks for the comment I feel like I'm in a box- if I did nothing she destroys herself, if I step in I'm controlling. Add to that the complaining that goes on about me because of alcohols influence on her brain. You might think the complaining it justified. Let me give you an example of what happens. As soon as we buy a condo she insists on having kids. After four years we move from a condo to a three bedroom colonial and within two weeks she says its not big enough. She claims she drank and didn't care about her appearance because she was mad a me for not make enough money when we bought the house so she had to keep working part time. So I go to law school to start a better career and she complains that I didn't do it earlier enough. She complained about living in the town the law school is in and our apartment there. On the last possible night that we can decide to stay or leave she has me decide-I decide to return to our home town and live with my parent because neither of us are working at the time. Now she is inconsolable because we have destoyed our children's lives by moving them from their school. All I want is a happy life partner-I could have lived without being a lawyer, having a house. However, since she is unhappy no matter what, I started making decisions based what I think will work out best. Is this just women think or ,as I suspect, is she clinically depressed? [Mr Learner]
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2002-10-23 08:16:41 |
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Darlene
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Wow, I have read your whole diary now. First may I say that your adventures into swinging is open minded, and I have considered, although not done that myself. May I also offer some constructive feedback? Men believe that they can control things they cannot. Whether or not your wife chooses to drink, put on weight or anything else is beyond your control. Banning alcohol from the house and banning it from your presence is not a solution. Find the CAUSE of the drinking and only SHE can quit when she chooses. I perceive that the feeling that if "you set your foot down, this will stop", is really nothing more than you trying to "parent her" and this is unproductive in any marriage as she is and adult and old enough to choose for herself. Either accept her behaviors (as she accepts yours, and the control that you enjoy) or get out. Because in reality, those are your only choices. As people we wanna stay stuck, blame the other person etc... and the bottom line is.. control the things YOU CAN control, and worry about you and keeping you healthy. Worry about your kids and the "effect" this behavior (BOTH of your behaviors) are having on them. If your wife does not "fit into" the ideal of a wife, body image, mother, then it's time to get help, find the cause, be honest with yourselves.... or get out. It really is as simple as that. I see MANY things right now that your wife is "doing" in response to your overtures to control her behavior.... spending money you don't have is an immature payback for you doing things she doesn't like. So sit down, have a rational, logical NON-BLAMING conversation and see if you guys can't get some help. Good Luck, and this is not meant offensively at all. AL [Amazon Lover]
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2002-10-22 23:52:39 |
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Anna part 2
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I guess we are as confusing to you men, like you are to us. Good thinking, "take notes" ;-) (I lost your addy-post. I had some questions and thoughts I wanted to ask) [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-10-21 18:17:21 |
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Anna
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What a loser. [Lasujah]
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2002-10-18 13:18:37 |
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Have you considered, suggested to wife about seeing a marriage counselor? Do you think it would help? I wonder when couple's agree, or get to the point where they say "Enough is Enough"...and divorce. I can admit safely to you, I act "Sybil-ish", bitchy, on purpose. I'd love it if my "Lucifer" would just agree to leave. I hate when he comes home, I can't stand to watch him eat, I haven't said "I love you" in 4 years. (You think that would be some sort of clue...lol) Also,....if you don't mind me asking....what your wife's thoughts, feelings were on the "swinging"? Did she enjoy it? Other questions I have might be better suited for the ya-hoo dot com version. ;-) [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-10-17 16:35:35 |
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On the wrong track
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Unfortunately, there are not too many more to tell. [Mr Learner]
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2002-10-16 07:56:12 |
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On the wrong track
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I find your diary very exciting. I haven't yet wrote the juicy stuff in mine,...your threesome and couple's experiences is something my secret lover and I are wanting to explore. I'm nervous yet excited about finding another couple. [SomeBunny2U]
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2002-10-15 23:54:16 |
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Not what I hoped
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Lol interesting ... make sure u dont get into any sexual harrassment cases ... hope u have a good day :) [coastal flower]
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2002-10-10 18:39:03 |
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Threesome
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The bunny dildo is shaped like a penis in its main part but off the base protudes a rabbits head with long ears. It is battery powered electric. It has settings so that tiny balls that fill the base can be stirred, the bunny can vibrate or the balls and bunny can go at the same time. When the penis part is in a women's pussy the vibrating ears stimulate her clitoris. The whole thing is pink. I was curious why my wife don't take to anal sex so I tried the penis part of the bunny in me and turned it on. The vibrations relaxed my muscles and I was shocked to find it made me cum like nothing else. Ofcourse I was controlling the bunny with one hand and jacking off with the other. Unfortunately, the thing was made kind of cheap, the electrical part stopped working and I have since thrown it out. [Mr Learner]
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2002-10-10 10:48:17 |
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Threesome
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Thanks for your advice. I will take it to heart. I was wondering what a rabbit ear vibrator looked like. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-10-09 17:09:55 |
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Wanna be swingers
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I guess it pays to keep hope alive. I hope it was worth the wait. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-10-02 20:56:21 |
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Home Life
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a belated welcome to this place. Like you I am watching depression consume someone that I care about. And wondering how bad it will get. Do you think you will ever see the woman that you wrote about in your first entry again? It's amazing how you just decided to start your life over again and did. be well [mornings_promise]
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2002-10-01 10:59:53 |
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